The Gap Between Expectations and Experience

What I think it would be like and what it actually ends up like is very different. There is usually a large gap between the two points of expectation and experience. High expectations can produce an underwhelming experience; simply because your excitement had created something large in your mind and what was infront of you was fine in size, but not to the vastness you … Continue reading The Gap Between Expectations and Experience

If No One Was Looking Would You Still Feel The Pressure?

Have you ever felt the pressure from watching eyes? Family, friends and even strangers looking at your life; telling you their opinions and advice on what they think it should look like, but mostly just watching to see if you make it. Pressure can come from different sources,  it can be good and bad so that’s why I don’t completely hate it, but I don’t … Continue reading If No One Was Looking Would You Still Feel The Pressure?

Who Are You Measuring Yourself Against?

Comparison is a big issue that knocks me down. I could be feeling great, suddenly I think about someone and what they have then look back at my own and feel low about my situation. When I don’t leave the thought quickly and let it take room in my soul, I get filled with other negative emotions such as bitterness and jealously. I have even … Continue reading Who Are You Measuring Yourself Against?

I Didn’t See It Coming In 2017 and Who I Want To Be In 2018

Hey everyone, if you’ve read some of my pervious posts you will find that I have mentioned that last year did not end well for me. ‘Blind-sided and caught off guard’. When I talk about it, I describe it as a sudden attack; but it was not. I was knocked down unexpectedly because I did not look underneath the surface, I had false hope without … Continue reading I Didn’t See It Coming In 2017 and Who I Want To Be In 2018

Let’s Catch Up Over A Cup Of Your Preferred Beverage

Hey Y’all, Happy New Year!   We made it into 2018, woop woop! Today I wanted to talk out my thoughts on New Year’s and where this blog is heading. If you don’t already have something to drink, go grab one and we can pretend we are at a coffee shop having a friendly chat.   Welcoming in the New Year is a very exciting … Continue reading Let’s Catch Up Over A Cup Of Your Preferred Beverage